A recent article by Robert Crampton in The Times, titled “I’m in the gym with semi-clad young women. Where do I look?” has sparked a big conversation. Crampton, a 60-year-old married father, described feeling uncomfortable in his gym, where many young women wear sports bras and tank tops. He said it feels like being in a changing room, and even though he doesn’t want to stare, he finds it distracting.
His words caused a stir online. Some people felt he was unfairly judging women’s gym clothes. Others, like Paul Byrne, a gym owner, agreed that gym attire has become too revealing. On a radio show called Newstalk’s “Lunchtime Live,” Byrne said that in recent years, social media has led to more women wearing what he calls “workout bikinis”—outfits that show their stomachs. He thinks these clothes can make others feel intimidated and suggested women should cover up more.
@izzywarnerrr LOL @DFYNE
But many people, especially women, disagreed. Fitness influencer Izzy Warner posted a video wearing a sports bra and shorts, jokingly calling it her “workout bikini.” She was showing that she wears what feels comfortable for her workouts. Another person, a man, made a funny video pretending to hide from a woman in gym clothes, poking fun at the idea that women’s outfits are “intimidating.”
A woman made a strong point: “How about we stop sexualizing women’s bodies? Women don’t dress for men at the gym.” She said the real issue is men staring, not women’s clothes.
This debate shows a bigger issue. Gyms are places where everyone should feel safe and respected. Women often choose tight or revealing clothes because they’re practical—they stay in place during exercise and help them see their muscles working. But some men, like Crampton, say these outfits make it hard to focus. Meanwhile, women have shared stories of being stared at or judged, which can make them feel unsafe.
@jamesgreenehpa Newstalk sound bites strikes again ⚡️ I can think of a lot more intimidating things in the gym #healthandperformanceacademy
So, what’s the answer? It’s about respect. Women should wear what makes them feel good and helps them exercise. Men should focus on their own workouts and not stare. Gyms could also help by setting clear rules about behavior, not just clothing, to make sure everyone feels comfortable.
In the end, the gym is for getting stronger and healthier, not for judging others. Let’s all focus on our own goals and let others do the same.
